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How to Buy Lingerie for a Girl (as Told by a Girl)

February 4th, 2010 · No Comments

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, we know that there are still a few guys searching for that special last-minute gift for their special lady. Don’t worry, Yandy’s got you covered with the fastest shipping and lowest prices in the industry, and now we’ve added a lingerie-buying guide created by a real, actual girl. Watch out!

A Girl’s Take

Guys, listen up: there are a lot of girls who buy lingerie on their own and love it, and there are girls who don’t. If a girl DOES love lingerie, then it’s safe to buy her something more scandalous or even costume-y. He would know this if she has bought things like this in the past, if they role play etc. If the girl hasn’t really dabbled in lingerie play, there could be a few reasons:

1. It doesn’t cross her mind to wear it to feel sexy – For many, just wearing lingerie transforms them into a sex kitten, but not everyone. Remember, even if you think lingerie is sexy on her, this does not mean she sees it that way.

2. Insecurities – Even the most confident women have insecurities about their bodies and sexual performance. Believe it or not, Megan Fox needs to be reassured from time to time.

3. Past failed attempts - They’ve tried doing something out of their comfort zone in the past to be sexy and got shot down (directly or indirectly). Maybe it was the night you ate the entire appetizer sampler by yourself and could barely move, let alone be frisky. Or, maybe it was a past boyfriend who did shot her down. Either way, weather the storm and it’ll be worth your while. I promise.

The real truth is that we need you to help us feel sexy. This means countering our insecurities with positivity and nurturing those provocative bursts, thus feeding the sex panther within (even if it’s been lying dormant for a few months/years).

It’s Simple. Really.

Lingerie is a complex psychological topic, but also fairly simple when it comes down to form. The actual look, colors and so forth are a tough one to pin down–you’ll have to judge based on what she already has and what you know about her. That said, I chose some pieces based on what I feel women would feel sexy in. Keep in mind that if a girl is insecure about her body, it is most likely because of her thighs, butt, or stomach. Sometimes breasts, but not as often.
Examples

From the pieces I chose, you’ll notice that most of them accent a certain part of the woman that they love and make her feel comfortable with areas she may not love. Example, if she’s told you that she hates her butt, buy her lace cheekies NOT a thong. And don’t think that by buying her a thong she’ll think “Oh, I’ll totally wear this! I hate my butt but he loves it, so okay.” We don’t work like that! She probably won’t wear it. Same for a woman who hates her stomach–get her something with a sheer mesh over it like a teddy or onesie.

Insecure about her butt? Get her mesh cheekies! $4.46

Insecure about her butt? Get her mesh cheekies! $4.46

For a woman that loves her butt: thong

Silk thong w/satin bow $9.95

Silk thong w/satin bow $9.95

For a woman who loves her stomach: straps, cutouts or jewels that draw attention to it.

Stretch lace bra and short $19.95

Stretch lace bra and short $19.95

For a woman who loves her breasts: bustier/corset

Bustier w/removable skirt $45.99

Bustier w/removable skirt $45.99

For a woman who loves her legs: stockings/ garter/heels

Garter belt w/thong $29.95

Garter belt w/thong $29.95

Presentation

Another thing to think about is how to present the lingerie. There are a couple options:

1. Leave it for her with a note to slip it on for you before you get home from work

2. Email her the site and have her choose something on her own that she thinks is sexy

3. Wrap it and present it as a gift at dinner.

It’s a delicate topic. If she is new to lingerie/dress up, I’d try one of the first so that you don’t put her on the spot. Otherwise, it depends on what your plans are and when you think you’ll be home from work (no one wants to sit around in lingerie for 3hrs because you had to work late!)

Alright boys, you’ve been armed with the knowledge, now put it to use. Find her something sweet and sexy, and make this the hottest, most indulgent (and exhausting) Valentine’s Day ever!

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